Good day, dear visitors of the blog! A meaningful, happy relationship is impossible without sex life. The opportunity for the women in the bed affects the mental balance and behavior.
But why is the harmonic, at first glance, the connection, sometimes I miss libido? In fact, the reasons for this phenomenon, is more than enough. Here plays a significant role as a physiological factor, psychological.
The lack of libido in women not a reason to blame the spouse. Today I will help you to understand why this is happening.
During orgasm in the physiological point of view, there is a reduction of the uterus, vagina that ends with satisfaction. Partners experience during a sexual intercourse one or more orgasms.
If a woman cold in bed, I don't feel any kind of feeling, the so-called frigid. A frigid woman, the complete aversion to the sexual process.
Libido - the so-called sexual desire. Heyday of the late teens or early twenties, sometimes earlier.
The sexual life of the partners comes from the desire which is formed in the brain. A strong sex appears through the visual images, a large part of the population associated with romance, action. After he got the desire, the excitement starts the process steps, at the end of orgasm. The more serious the problem, the more difficult therapy.
Why don't they want the women?
We've talked about the fact that the reasons for the lack of attraction are divided into two groups. Let's look at the physiological side:
- If the hormonal system. Responsible for libido hormone called testosterone. Today we have a tendency to decrease. In women decreased libido may be due to the effect of the hormone, prolactin. Breastfeeding women loss the attraction.
- The age-related processes. The loss or weakening of libido occurs in women during menopause. At this time, the efficiency of the ovaries begins to decrease, which estrogen, produced in small quantities. The process will be painful in the absence of lubrication. Stop intercourse to continue to live a normal life and be happy.
- Pathological condition. This includes conditions such as diabetes, diseases of the genitourinary system, and many others.
- A way of life. Nicotine, alcohol, drugs inhibit the attraction. They affect the nerves in the brain that is responsible for libido. The priority of satisfaction of these habits.
- Contraction of the muscles of the vaginathat can be painful for both parties. Often the reason is that this condition is postponed sexual violence.
- Venereal diseases. Often created discomfort in the area of the external genitalia and the vagina.
The psychological aspect
Women often don't have the desire, the connection to the previous difficult moving situations, such as unsuccessful first sexual relations, the rape, the child is born.
A lot of woman who was raised very strictly, I'm ashamed to open my own feelings and emotions to your partner. They are afraid to seem slutty, etc. Often there are cases when after marriage the women are just the sex in the dark, or clothing. I lost interest because of the hidden anger towards his former partner.
At the beginning, at first, relations between people are exist the interest and strong attraction. This contributes to the chemical processes in the brain that the increased passion, growing desire. All this leads to the natural sexual process without the additional activation of the desire.
Problems of identity arising due to the imposed opinion of society, the parents, and other people, and as a result, the psychological trauma in time overlap each other, a strong attraction to a particular partner. But over time, the spark, the lost, the problems are back.
The continuing conflicts, disagreements between the spouses occurring during the whole life, play an important role in the loss of sexual desire. There are those who long to hold a grudge, because it completely turns off sexual attraction.
A large part of the population, it is important to receive compliments, flowers, gifts, even after the wedding and many years together. Women have a huge need to develop the emotional part of the relationship, before the sexual contact. Men, it seems, after the sex.
Love, sex, harmony. If the couple prevails more Platonic, spiritual connection, then libido goes the way, and vice versa.
Over the years, among the people there is no trust, understanding, but suffers intimate life. Relationships, people are going to deprive, maybe to desire intimacy with someone, while remaining faithful to the partner.
Played an important role in physical attraction. After the marriage, the women and the men will not cease to care for themselves. To comply with the hygiene rules, watch your weight, hair, makeup, clothing style, skin condition, etc.
In a relationship where I don't know what inspired the look, facial expressions, movement, smell partner is not satisfaction. Differentiation between the parts of DNA that create the attraction between partners. So, what we're drawn sexually to those individuals that have irregular or unusual in the american style, dress, behavior, that I really like. But the interests, views, life among these people will not be the same.
The solution to the problem
A woman may not always understand the missing desire. The ladies you ask yourself many questions, how not to bring the marriage to divorce. The to some the best solution will be to visit a psychologist or sexologist.
Specialist will research, talk will consider the problem from all angles to establish the cause of the libido loss to find an effective way to solve the problem. This may be standard advice, various technical, therapeutic manipulation, dance and movement activities. The professional determines the client to work.
Treatment of decreased libido a certain difficulty. If managed correctly to determine the cause, then you need therapy of the main disease.
In all cases, it may be useful to lead a healthier life, to stop drinking alcohol, get enough sleep, stay calm state of mind. All these measures, which aim to improve the hormonal levels in a natural way. I achieved excellent results in this regard, so I know what I'm talking about.
It is useful to perform a series of exercises designed to strengthen the PC muscles, pelvic floor muscles. Stimulates arousal by increasing the blood flow. Also Kegel exercises can be performed daily for this purpose.
But in the end it turns out to be another method to gain the sexual interest of your partner in a natural way. Just need to do the yoga.
As we know, the exercises, yoga is accompanied by a deep, conscious breath. Before bed exercises, train yourself to correctly breathe after, the same belly breathing to use during intimacy, you'll be surprised how it works!
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